Kaddish
The Kaddish, said by the leader and by mourners, ready to read in Aramaic, transliterated or translated.
The Kaddish
The next two lines are said by the congregation, then repeated by the leader:
The half Kaddish ends here. The mourners' Kaddish and the Kaddish de-Rabbanan continue:
In the Kaddish de-Rabbanan (after study), add:
Understand
One of the most sacred rituals observed by all Jews throughout the generations is the practice of reciting the Kaddish prayer for the merit of the departed soul of one's father or mother.
The Kaddish is recited for the first time in the cemetery, immediately following the burial. Henceforth, it is recited every day, in the designated places in the three daily prayer services, for eleven months.
The duty to recite Kaddish rests upon the children of the deceased. If a person dies without children, then another relative should assume the task. If that is not possible, then another person can be assigned or hired to recite Kaddish in the merit of the deceased.
Kaddish can only be recited at a minyan — a communal regular prayer service held with the participation of at least ten adult (age 13 or older) Jewish men.
If the mourner is able to lead the prayer service for the congregation, it is a particular merit for the soul of the departed for him to do so.
What is Kaddish?
For centuries the Jewish People have honored their loved ones who’ve passed on, through the recital of the Kaddish prayer. It’s actually a prayer who’s content speaks merely of the exalted name of God, & makes no mention of the deceased
Our sages tell us (Pesikta in Devarim chapter 14) that the departed soul can achieve Kapparah or Atonement even after leaving this world through good deeds done on behalf of the soul. Rabbeinu B’chaya adds that charities given in memory of the departed & the Kaddish prayer specifically help the soul achieve atonement and reach to higher levels in the after-world. Due to the honoring of Gods name amongst a minyan (group) of 10 or more Jews, Kaddish has traditionally become the way to honor our loved ones who’ve departed on to the next world.
According to the Jewish law and tradition Kaddish is said for one year by the son or other close relative of the departed soul. In many situations this isn’t possible due to circumstances such as there are no male close relatives, or someone is unable to attend services in a synagogue.
Kaddish : Video
Birkat Hamazon